Your Questions About Tattoo Designs For Men Arms

Nancy asks…

Our church staged an “intervention” at my wife’s behest, due to my supposed alcoholism; how do I handle this?

First, let me say that I am not an alcoholic; as I’ve said before, I can take it or leave it, and I have simply chosen to take it for a score of years. It is no big deal; men drink, that’s how God designed us. My wife, however, apparently decided, after I was arrested for getting into a fight in public with two alpacas, that I have a *problem*, so she arranged this intervention by the good people from our church.

It miffs me, because I haven’t gone to church for nearly two years; they got all bent out of shape when I donated my old Playboys to the church rummage sale, and I decided they were too uptight for me. That didn’t stop them from coming in the other night, telling tear-drenched stories of how my kids cried during Sunday School, asking for prayers so that Jesus would save their “drunk daddy.”
I resent them using my kids against me; just see if those brats get a trip to Knott’s Scary Farm this Halloween season!

Besides, I do tattoos for a living, and I have to keep up my cred in order to get the business. What am I supposed to drink, whole milk? Yeah, the guys down at the parlor will totally understand that. I think the church has it in for me ever since I did that tat of Jesus on the pastor’s arm and added that teardrop to the side of our Savior’s eye. I was making a statement about Jesus doing time for us, so we didn’t have to, but the church didn’t seem to get it.

Oh well, I’m stuck with a family and a bunch of church people praying for poor old drunk me. How the heck am I supposed to deal with this? Man, my hands are shaking so much, I need a beer just to steady my nerves.

Vanessa answers:

They just want your beers.

Buy them some cheaper liquor and they will leave you alone.

Sandra asks…

Am I just being Paranoid ?

I got the out line and some shading done on my tattoo last night.It doesn’t look so great. The guy that is doing it is has only been doing tats for two years, but he is working with Caveman the best and most popular tattoo artist in my state which is Maine. He does have a small portfolio and 1 2nd place trohpy. His work looks good and cave Man kept checking my outline and said that it looked good and that he would have done it the same way. I’m second guessing my desision and I’m thinking about letting someone else finish it. Keep in mind that I am A perfectionist and nothing is ever good enough for me. The outline doesn’t match up to the exact measuements of the design That I picked.This is the design . it’s going to be a sleeve on my upper right arm.
http://www.imaginistix.com/details.cfm?Id=614

Vanessa answers:

I agree with the other two and I don’t think that you are being paranoid at all!!

If you are not comfortable and satisfied with the way the work is going – by all means go find someone else to finish it!

This is going to be on your body forever!

Personally, I would go with someone with much more experience, rather than an apprentice that is still learning.

You want to be Proud of your tattoo and be able to Show it off – not be Ashamed of it and hide it because you don’t like it.

It’s YOUR body – do what YOU think is best!

I’ve known several people who have had worked done that were not satisfied with the finished outcome and all of them complain about it! Lol

A couple have had the worked redone or retouched, and the rest don’t have the money to go to someone else to fix the problems (bad work, fading, incomplete, color didn’t take right, etc).

By the way, that is going to make one gorgeous tat – as long as you get someone who *knows* what they are doing to finish it!

Best Wishes and Good Luck! =)

Susan asks…

Is my husband of 4 years cheating?

He talked about his very good friend’s intimate sexual life on radio with whom he was close friends for 5 years(always sitting together,hanging out,even played her boyfriend once and ,i saw a picture of him posing very closely with her(arm on her waist,body tilted) which was not of his workplace,it looked like they were going somewhere)all the men he knows she dated and slept with and who she must be sleeping with while he’s talking on radio which caused an uproar and then he had to forcibly apologize to her which he was stubbornly refusing to.
She is the same girl whose single poster he had included in a magazine whose guest editor was my husband 2 years ago.that was an exclusive poster in which she had worn a two piece swimsuit of united states flag design and my husband was the guest editor of that magazine which meant he chose all the materials inside that magazine.
after that radio incident this year in june do you think he has patched up with her again?
when he was asked about her again he said he’s a big fan of her and shes got potential in a sarcastic way.This girl is 7 years younger to him and they both work in the same place.Hes a theater actor.
Sometimes his upper and lower lips are swollen at work
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he had cheated a few years ago when a photo came out showing him with a girl sitting on his lap while he was engaged to me at his workplace,then him and getting platonic with some girl 4 years ago after i married him.again three years ago some pictures came out of him with a girl,who was kissing him on his cheek and with whom he gave three pics.
We have a three year old kid who is very close to him and i am pretty sure that father and daughter will stay with each other.and he’s very wealthy.and he has a tattoo of my name which he got done 4 years ago.
And a recent photograph and video came out showing him with a blonde girl with whom he was cuddling from behind,touching her head or face or bending to kiss her head and wrapped his arms aound her chest,and was laughing and joking.It was taken at a restaurant as i could make out.
the person had made a video of it and refused to mention where she put up the video.
All these girls are blondes and petite.and younger than him.
almost everyone says he cheats on me and people even call me a gold digger and other foul names.
and when i go to watch him perform at the theater he comes and kisses me in the crowd.why does he kiss me then?

Vanessa answers:

Yes I think he’s cheating on you.. And he kisses you in public because he has an image to uphold. Get some solid proof against him then leave him.

Charles asks…

Do you think “intellect” has taken a back seat to fun/pleasures?

I come in contact with literally, several thousand people every day. And as I watch the different specticals of parades of people whom I pass, some with huge earrings, and that’s just the gentlemen, and rings in and on every part of the body and face one can and can’t imagine. Then we have the “expression” of tattoos. Now I’m not against one having a tattoo or even a few well placed designs that can be easily concealed, but to paint ones’ face and neck and arms and chest to the point where you can’t even make out what you’re trying to admire, is somewhat ridiculous for my taste. Then we have the piercings and the clothing. We won’t even begin to discuss some of the sights, that clothing can reveal. And I thought nose-rings were only meant for bulls, but I digress. As for clothing, I think underclothes were designed just for that reason, and if one chooses to wear a lace night for a shirt, that’s fine for their own personal pleasures in the privacy of their homes. But I’m still not convinced we’re looking
“more intelligent” when one chooses to wear all this in any one given day, especially with boots and a cow-girl hat….

In any case, do you think this can be a reflection of a country lacking Intelligence or just a matter or morals and/or lack of them. Because, when it comes time that I have to tell a young lady to put her “breast” back in her shirt or to tell a young man that he cannot come into my workplace with it “butt” sticking out of his pants, somethings very wrong…I don’t have a problem so much with the youth and others dressing in this manner as long as it’s done with taste, but you don’t have to show your a- – .!….you’re thoughts?

Vanessa answers:

Self expression is the norm,…young folk want a identity,
trouble is’ they look a flipping mess.
Women in our small town, with rings hanging out of their belly button …space in midriff with bulge [pregnant] tattoos on arms and neck,shouting at little johnny.
What’s happened to the female species…do you remember Doris Day,
she looked gorgeous, real feminine.
Men have this dirty jeans lookalike syndrome,… Earrings in ears, and on their knuckles is tattooed love.. Hate.
Sorry for being up-tight, but I come from a army background, where discipline smartness was instilled in me.
God-bless Denis C.

Mark asks…

Is my husband of 4 years cheating?

He talked about his very good friend’s intimate sexual life on radio with whom he was close friends for 5 years(always sitting together,hanging out,even played her boyfriend once and ,i saw a picture of him posing very closely with her(arm on her waist,body tilted) which was not of his workplace,it looked like they were going somewhere)all the men he knows she dated and slept with and who she must be sleeping with while he’s talking on radio which caused an uproar and then he had to forcibly apologize to her which he was stubbornly refusing to.
She is the same girl whose single poster he had included in a magazine whose guest editor was my husband 2 years ago.that was an exclusive poster in which she had worn a two piece swimsuit of united states flag design and my husband was the guest editor of that magazine which meant he chose all the materials inside that magazine.
after that radio incident this year in june do you think he has patched up with her again?
when he was asked about her again he said he’s a big fan of her and shes got potential in a sarcastic way.This girl is 7 years younger to him and they both work in the same place.Hes a theater actor.
Sometimes his upper and lower lips are swollen at work
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he had cheated a few years ago when a photo came out showing him with a girl sitting on his lap while he was engaged to me at his workplace,then him and getting platonic with some girl 4 years ago after i married him.again three years ago some pictures came out of him with a girl,who was kissing him on his cheek and with whom he gave three pics.
We have a three year old kid who is very close to him and i am pretty sure that father and daughter will stay with each other.and he’s very wealthy.and he has a tattoo of my name which he got done 4 years ago.
And a recent photograph and video came out showing him with a blonde girl with whom he was cuddling from behind,touching her head or face or bending to kiss her head and wrapped his arms aound her chest,and was laughing and joking.It was taken at a restaurant as i could make out.
the person had made a video of it and refused to mention where she put up the video.
and i spend time with my girlfriends as he travels a lot and out of home frequently.my girlfriends and take pictures and hang out.he really loves his child and so does my daughter.they are like inseparable.is this the reason why he is not divorcing coz if he leaves me he wont be able to take care of our kid alone until he finds a worthy woman to be with???is this the reason he cheats so that he finds the real deal according to him?
All these girls are blondes and petite.and younger than him.
almost everyone says he cheats on me and people even call me a gold digger and other foul names.
and when i go to watch him perform at the theater he comes and kisses me in the crowd.why does he kiss me then?

Vanessa answers:

Yep, he is cheating. Sounds like you know this already. You have two choices:
1. Get marriage counseling, try to work things out
2. Get a divorce.

I honestly believe that every marriage should be fought for before you just go get divorced in two seconds, but this guy sounds like a real player. If he’s willing to work on the marriage and on his “problem” then you have a chance. If not, well…get ready to sign some papers.

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